FAQ

Tantric massage for women

Is Here She Comes right for you? Read the FAQ below to find out!

Frequently Asked Questions

What can I expect during a session?

The therapy begins with several minutes of slow, tantalizing touch about your upper and lower body before seamlessly transitioning to more pleasure-sensitive areas.

Sessions do not include any type of muscle manipulation or deep tissue massage, but rather, soft meditative touch. Throughout the hour, you’ll experience a medley of rhythms, pressures and intensities edging you closer and closer to the ultimate state of bliss.

What’s expected of me?

You’re expected to be a legal adult.

Other than that, there are no expectations of you during the session — it’s all about you, and for you.

It’s an opportunity to turn off thought and to relax deeply into a liberating experience. You don’t need to perform, nor reciprocate.

Why would I want to experience sensual touch therapy? What are the benefits of this treatment?

Sensual touch therapy appeals to body-positive women of all ages for a wide range of reasons. Among them:

It can help satisfy your natural longing for human touch if:

  • you’ve been pouring untold hours and energy into your career or family at the expense of your sensual self.
  • you’re in a relationship where your needs are being neglected — but you don’t want to stray.
  • you recently went through a breakup, miss intimate touch, but are not yet ready to date.

Sensual therapeutic touch can also:

  • help rev-up low libidos and reawaken dormant intimate feelings.
  • help you discover your body’s potential for reaching peak pleasure – that has up to now eluded you.
  • help you release built-up tension with deeper, more intense and more frequent waves of pleasure.
  • help you better understand your body’s hot buttons – so you can communicate them to your partner.
  • help you overcome negative associations, or regain confidence stemming from bad intimate experiences.

Additionally, it can:

  • be an item to check off your bucket list if you are an adventurer — or seeking to “get your kink on” in a judgement-free zone.
  • deliver quick, convenient, uncomplicated release if, for whatever reason, you’re going through a dry spell.
  • provide a safe, blissful “me-time” indulgence and escape after a long stressful day.

Where are you located?

I operate out of a private home in a centrally located part of Knoxville. It is not a spa or commercial setting.

How long are sessions?

A standard sensual therapeutic session is 60 minutes. Sessions can be intense, and guests generally find that they’ve “had enough of a good thing” after an hour.

Tantric and yoni massage can take a good deal longer, but it’s really up to you and your wants and needs. If you’d like a longer or shorter session, we can discuss.

Why do you request guests’ age, height, weight and photos?

Before meeting guests, I like to get a sense of who they are on both a personal and physical level in order to provide more tailored service. I request some basic information upfront to also ensure that the person who shows up is indeed the person who contacted me. G-rated pics are fine, but send what you wish.

Is my information private and confidential?

Yes. Protecting your privacy is taken extremely seriously, and I am committed to the highest levels of confidentiality, discretion and trust. It’s kind of like Vegas. My ironclad policy is that whatever happens here, stays here.  Any and all communication between us, whether online or in-person, is held in strict confidence. Always.

How can I be assured this is safe?

Safety is, of course, a top priority — mine as well as yours. That’s why I insist we exchange a few emails and speak briefly by phone prior to confirming appointments.

If you’re so inclined, you can tell a friend where you’re going and give them my phone number. You’re also free to text or call someone while you’re here.

You are always ultimately in charge. You can revoke consent at any time, stop the session at any time, and leave at any time.

How do you keep things tidy?

High standards of cleanliness and hygiene are extremely important to me, and as such, I wash my hands several times throughout each session.

My massage table is thoroughly cleaned before each session, and the sheets are washed with bleach. My work space is kept clean and orderly.

If hand-held instruments or other aids are used, rest assured they’ve been washed and sanitized as well.

You will be wiped down with a fresh warm washcloth at the conclusion of the session.

Can you guarantee I’ll orgasm?

Every woman’s body is different, and responds differently to touch. While most guests leave with a big happy smile, it would be presumptuous of me to guarantee a toe-curling grand finale with fireworks 100% of the time. I can, however, guarantee a delightful and memorable experience.

Is there a fee?

This is a completely legal endeavor — sessions are complimentary.

Donations are accepted and appreciated, but they are not required.

How are you dressed during sessions?

Nothing fancy — I wear clothes that I don’t mind spilling a little massage oil on. If you prefer I’m wearing as little as you are, you may request so.

Do sessions go beyond the use of hands?

Standard therapy is limited to manual touch. Devices and other playthings are also available. If you so desire, you may touch me. If you have something more in mind, feel free to ask, as sessions are tailored around your preferences and wishes.

What if I’m shy and feel weird about communicating what I like?

While I feel it’s my job to unlock the mysteries of your body within the hour, you’ll get the most satisfaction out of your session by letting me know what’s working for you. And you don’t necessarily need to be verbal. I’m very good at reading body language. And subtle signals like a wiggle or a moan are perfectly fine ways to convey your approval of certain modes of touch, or areas you’d like special attention paid to. All without ever saying a word.

Is Guy your real name?

No, but I am just an average guy in most respects — the exception being that I have exceptional hands.

Who are you? What do you look like?

If you’re dreaming of some hunky, tattooed, muscle-bound dude who stepped out of GQ, I’m not him. I’m a regular guy of average height and weight, blessed with hands that are anything but average. White, unattached, middle-aged male. Clean, educated, and funny.

Most importantly, I’m warm and welcoming with a calming non-judgemental demeanor that will put you at ease from the moment we meet.

As your guide and facilitator, I consider it a privilege to provide this service, and have deep admiration and respect for any woman who empowers herself to take ownership of her body and soul in this way.

Do you do this full time?

No. I am involved in other pursuits and professional endeavors that keep me busy much of the time.

What type of training do you have?

Aside from various seminars and classes in the sensual arts, I am largely self-taught with a longtime passion for this type of giving.

If you would feel more comfortable receiving this kind of service from a massage therapist, the next time you’re at Massage Envy or your neighborhood spa, tell them the type of “special therapy” you’d like.

Let me know how that works out for you 😉

I know this is last minute, but can you see me right now?

If I happen to be available, yes. But best to schedule in advance.

Can I arrange a session for a friend as part of her bachelorette or birthday party festivities?

Yes. Whether you’re interested in a session for just the bachelorette or birthday girl, or your entire group of friends, contact me to find out how this can be arranged.

I’m visiting Knoxville on business / pleasure. Will you come to my hotel?

Maybe. I prefer to provide service at my location as the therapy is best administered on a massage table rather than a bed. But let me know where you’re staying and we’ll see.

I’m a guy. Can I watch my wife’s or girlfriend’s therapy session?

No. The service is for women only. No men. No couples. No spectators. If you think this is something your significant other would enjoy, have her contact me herself, and we’ll take it from there.

To even consider this is so out of character for me. Why do I find it so intriguing?

I get that a lot.

Do you offer 4-handed massage?

Yes, although not regularly. If it’s something you’d like to try, let me know, and I can enlist a female bodywork assistant to double your pleasure.

AND if you’re a woman interested in being an extra set of hands, let me know why, and I’ll get back to you with details.

I just had a session and would like to share my thoughts. How do I post a review?

Reviews and testimonials really help other women considering a session get a sense of what this is all about from the female perspective.

If you’d like to write a few words about your experience, click here and scroll to the bottom of the page. You can be totally anonymous if you so choose.

OK, I’m ready to come! How do I request an appointment?

Review the information on the Appointments page, and send me a message there using the contact form.

Availability is limited. To increase your chances of consideration, please make sure to include your age, height, weight and photos. (See why in the FAQ above).

What if I need to cancel an appointment?

If you need to cancel or reschedule, please be considerate of my time and kindly notify me at least 24 hours in advance.

Appointments are officially confirmed once we speak by phone, (usually a few days prior to your session). If, after our confirmation call, it appears you’ll be unable to honor your appointment, let me know immediately.

With advance notice, I’ll happily reschedule you as soon as possible.

Cancel last minute, and you may get wait-listed for several weeks — or longer.

Whatever you do, don’t be “That Girl.” She’s the one who doesn’t show up at all. (You know who you are. And the karma gods know too).

I requested an appointment. How long until I hear back from you?

It depends. Sometimes within minutes or hours. Other times it may take a few days, or even a week or so.

It’s also possible you may not receive a reply at all.

Note: Due to work and personal commitments, I have a limited number of openings. I am regrettably unable to respond to or accommodate every appointment request, especially requests without the required information. Thank you for your understanding.

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